{"id":30236,"date":"2019-01-28T13:14:33","date_gmt":"2019-01-28T11:14:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.therwandan.com\/ki\/?p=30236"},"modified":"2019-01-28T13:14:33","modified_gmt":"2019-01-28T11:14:33","slug":"ibintu-wakora-mu-kugaragariza-uwo-mwashakanye-ko-umukunda-nyabyo-igice-cya-kabiri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.therwandan.com\/ki\/ibintu-wakora-mu-kugaragariza-uwo-mwashakanye-ko-umukunda-nyabyo-igice-cya-kabiri\/","title":{"rendered":"Ibintu wakora mu kugaragariza uwo mwashakanye ko umukunda nyabyo (Igice cya kabiri)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mu gice cya mbere cy\u2019iyi nkuru isobanura ibintu wakora mu kugaragariza uwo mwashakanye ko umukunda nyabyo, twari twagarutse ku mbaraga z\u2019amagambo yo gushima mu kubaka urukundo rw\u2019abashakanye. (SOMA IGICE CYA MBERE HANO: Ibintu wakora mu kugaragariza uwo mwashakanye ko umukunda nyabyo (Igice cya mbere)<\/a>. Muri iki gice cya kabiri turareba izindi ngingo za ngombwa mu kubaka urukundo n\u2019imibanire myiza hagati y\u2019abashakanye.<\/p>\n

Uretse amagambo yo gushimira hagati y\u2019abashakanye, ikindi cy\u2019ingenzi ku bashakanye ni ukuvuga amagambo meza kandi ukanamenya kuyavuga mu buryo bwiza, ukagenzura uririmi rwawe mu gihe ubwira uwo mwashakanye kuko abashakanye ari ngombwa kuvugana amagambo yuzuye urukundo, ari nayo mpamvu ubanza kugenzura amagambo ugiye kubwira mugenzi wawe kandi n\u2019uburyo ugomba gukoresha mu kuyamubwira ukabwitondera kuko akenshi iyo utabyitondeye bishobora kugabanya ikigero cy\u2019urukundo uwo mwashakanye agukunda cyangwa se bikagusenyera.<\/p>\n

Burya hari amagambo amwe ariko asobanurwa mu buryo butandukanye bitewe n\u2019uburyo uyavuzemo. Urugero uvuze ngo Ndagukunda undi akavuga ngo Ndakwikundira, bijya gusobanura kimwe ariko ubibwirwa abona ko kimwe kirimo akarusho.<\/p>\n

Ikindi kandi amagambo avuzwe mu ijwi ryo hejuru cyangwa se amagambo agaya ntabwo agaragaza urukundo ahubwo aba yerekana kumucira urubanza cyangwa kumwereka ko yaciye inka amabere. Uburyo uvuga ubwira umugabo wawe cyangwa umugore wawe biba ari ngenzi cyane. Bibliya itubwira ko \u201camagambo yoroheje yegizayo uburakari\u201d.<\/p>\n

Mu gihe umugabo wawe cyangwa umugore wawe yarakaye cyangwa afite ibyamutesheje umutwe (stress), ntukamwongerere umuriro ahubwo mubwize ijwi ryoroheje. Kandi niba hari icyo wakoze kibi kuri we, biragusaba kumusaba imbabazi kandi ukabyihana ubwawe ukanatera intambwe yo kumwegera ukamusaba imbabazi utitaye ku cyubahiro cyawe kuko ikiba kigamijwe ni ukurangiza icyo kibazo ntabwo ari ukwerekana uko wowe ubibona. Ibyo nibyo byerekana gukura mu rukundo.<\/p>\n

Urukundo ntabwo rugarura amakosa yashize kuko nta n\u2019umwe umeze nka malayika. Muri buzima bw\u2019abashakanye ntabwo igihe cyose dukora ibintu neza cyangwa mu buryo bwiza, ntabwo dushobora gusiba ibyashize ahubwo kimwe dushobora gukora ni ukwihana kandi tukemera ko atari byiza tugahanga amaso iby\u2019ahazaza. Dushobora gusaba imbabazi kandi tukagerageza gukora ibitandukanye n\u2019ibyashize mu gihe kiri imbere. Iyo umwe ahisemo ubutabera (Justice) kandi agashaka ko yisyhurwa ibyo yakorewe urukundo ruba rubaye ikidashoboka.<\/p>\n

Iyo umwe ahisemo kubabarira mugenzi we, urukundo rurakomeza kandi rukongera rukabyuka. \u201cKubabarira niyo nzira urukundo runyuramo\u201d. Hari imvugo cyangwa intekerezo zigaragaza uko kutihangana no kutababarira, izo zikaba zisenya urugo mu buryo bworoshye.<\/p>\n

Muri izo twavugamo: \u201dSiniyumvisha ukuntu wabikoze, ndumva ntazabyibagirwa, ntushobora kumva uko wambabaje, Sinshobora gukomeza kubana nawe nibikomeza gutya; N\u2019iyo wampfukamira gute sinzi ko nshobora kukubabarira…\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

Ayo magambo yose ntabwo ari amagambo y\u2019urukundo, ikintu cy\u2019ingenzi kandi cyiza ni ukureka ibyo byakubabaje bibi bikaba amateka. Nibyo byarabaye kandi byarakubabaje kandi biracyakubabaza ariko icy\u2019ingenzi ni ukubisabira imbabazi kandi ugatanga izo mbabazi.<\/p>\n

Nk\u2019uko nabivuze haruguru ntushobora gusiba ibyashize ariko ushobora kubyemera nk\u2019amateka ntukomeze kubyubakiraho. Dukeneye guhitamo kubaho uyu munsi tubohotse kubyo twakoze ejo hashize. Kubabarira ntabwo ari uko wiyumvamo cyangwa umerewe ahubwo KUBABARIRA nicyo usabwa gukora nk\u2019uko ijambo ry\u2019Imana ribivuga. Ni uguhitamo kwerekana impuhwe ntabwo ari ukugumana ibyo wakorewe ubikoresha mu guhangana n\u2019uwabigukorereye.<\/p>\n

Kubabarira ni uburyo bwo kwerekana urukundo ugira uti: (Ndagukunda , I love you, Je t\u2019 aime, Nakupenda.) bishaka kuvuga ngo \u201cNkwitayeho kandi mpisemo kukubabarira, ntabwo nzongera kwemera ko bigaruka kuri twe, ndizera ko ibi bitubayeho tuzabyigiraho, ntabwo waciye inka amabere kubera biriya byatubayeho. Uri umutware wanjye cyangwa se uri umufasha wanjye kandi twese tugiye gukora urugendo rushya duhereye hano”<\/i><\/p>\n

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Iri jambo muritegurirwa kandi mukarigezwaho na Rev.\/Ev. Eustache Nibintije, Umunyeshuri wa Patriots Bible University yo muri Leta Zunze Ubumwe za Amerika.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tel: +14128718098
Email: estachenib@yahoo.com<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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